Just because I can’t write doesn’t mean I am dumb!

Why Having Dysgraphia is Not the End of Life, and Certainly Nothing to Be Ashamed Of

Dysgraphia is often misunderstood as a barrier to success, but it’s not the end of the road, nor is it something to be ashamed of. The story of Dame Agatha Christie, one of the most successful authors of all time, is a powerful reminder that challenges like dysgraphia don’t define your potential.

Dysgraphia - Our journey

There was no reason for me to believe my child had a learning disability called Dysgraphia. I didn’t even know what it was. She was smart, witty, and quick to understand things. So why wasn’t she writing? At first, we thought she just didn’t want to work, preferring fun over schoolwork. We tried everything—encouragement, rewards, punishments—but nothing worked. No matter how much we coaxed her, she simply wouldn’t write. 

One day, we forced her to complete an assignment from school. She did, but with such difficulty that when she finished, she lay down, exhausted, as if she had just run a marathon. That moment told me something wasn’t right. I reached out to friends who had teaching experience. They reassured me, saying, “Don’t worry, every child learns to write eventually.” While I listened to their advice, my instincts as a mother told me something different.

little girl in glasses with learning difficulties like Dysgraphia, ADHD is reading a book because Dysgraphia is not a barrier to success

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